[UPDATED] Brent Everett’s Two Boyfriends Bludgeon Each Other In “Drugged Up” Brawl

Posted June 14, 2015 by with 113 comments

unnamed-3-670x503If a gay porn throuple gets in a fight but doesn’t post about it on social media, does it make a sound? Thanks to Facebook, we don’t have to answer that question, as gay porn superstar Brent Everett went online this morning to share all of the gory (literally) details about a brawl between two of his throuple’s less famous members: Jayson Smith and Steve Peña.

While Everett was in Toronto and far away from the violent incident, his boyfriends Smith and Peña had, according to Smith, a “drugged up” fight during this weekend’s Washington D.C. Pride.

Thanks to one of my readers, this early morning status update from Steve Peña appears to have been the initial Facebook post about the fight between him and Jayson Smith. 30 people liked it.

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Peña has since deleted the post, so it’s unclear if the throuple is in fact over.

30 minutes after Peña’s post, Jayson Smith published his own Facebook update, alleging that Peña beat him during a “drugged up rage.” If this is how Peña “end[s] it while we’re still friends,” I’d hate to see how he breaks up with his enemies.

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Both Smith and Peña look to have sustained painful injuries during their fight, but Smith was first to post a photo of his battered face, on Facebook.

IMG_20150614_113401Jayson Smith hasn’t commented further about the attack, but he did RT this message of support from one of his Twitter followers:

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Here’s one more photo of Smith. Presumably, the tongue being stuck out isn’t a result of his injuries:

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A few hours after Steve Peña’s Facebook post and Jayson Smith’s Facebook post, Brent Everett took to his Facebook page to let everyone know that Steve Peña was injured in the fight, too. The below photo appears to show a welt on Peña’s forehead:

Screenshot_2015-06-14-11-59-08Prior to posting the above photo of Peña, Everett posted a Facebook status update scolding both of his boyfriends for their behavior, blaming it in part on being “drunk dehydrated” (as opposed to Smith’s allegation that Peña was on drugs). Everett seems to be defending Peña more than Smith, particularly towards the end of his Facebook post when he assures his fans that Peña has never hit him, and that they’ve only “pushed each other” in the past.

Also? Everett’s Facebook post about his boyfriends’ fight takes his boyfriends to task for one other thing: Posting about their fight on Facebook. Fair enough.

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  • NickDC

    Blame Shifting and Minimizing: There’s no EXCUSE for Abuse

    http://www.thehotline.org/2014/01/blame-shifting-and-minimizing-theres-no-excuse-for-abuse/

    “I was drunk/I was using drugs.”

    Substance abuse isn’t an excuse for abuse. There are people who drink and use drugs and don’t choose to abuse their partners. Ask yourself: how does your partner act when they’re drunk around their friends? How do they treat you when they’re sober?

    A statistics teacher would tell you, “Correlation does not imply causation.” Just because two things happen together (like drinking and violence), it does not mean that one causes the other.

    BLAMING THE BOOZE OR DRUGS:
    “It wasn’t me, it was the beer talking!”
    “I would never do that if I was sober.”
    “I’m not really that person. That’s who I am when I’m high.”

    An abusive partner who is also using alcohol or drugs might make statements like these. They may blame drugs or alcohol instead of accepting responsibility for their behavior or actions. It can be all too easy to just accept what they say and move on without addressing the real underlying issue of abuse.

    • DPS

      EXACTLY! Brent also plays into it sadly by thinking him being there would “fix it”. Only those with the violence can fix it for them.

      The entire throuple mentality is a shaky one. Still though, rages have no place. Get some help guys or it will only get worse.

      • WhimsyCotton

        Brent just wants that damn green card. What self-respecting individual would smile at his/her husband nonchalantly getting into a completely new relationship and forcing them to be a part of it.

        • OneOfTheManyChris

          The best way for him to get a green card would be to divorce Pena and marry an American woman. Which sounds ridiculous, but thanks to all the weird court decisions his marriage to Pena hasn’t been a great green card success. I suspect he’d have a fairly easy time finding a woman who’d be willing to marry him for that matter.

          • Jer

            I’m in a gay marriage and my husband just got his green card. Took us a little over a year. Not that hard, really.

          • sxg

            yes but you kind of just got married. These two decided to get married right when it was first legalized, then it was repealed or something or other.

          • Jer

            I’ve been married for 2 years though. It was never repealed, and the green card comes from the US government. As long as they are married, the US will give them one. What likely happened is they failed to prove it was a good faith relationship due to all of this mess.

          • sxg

            This happened like 5+ years ago, WAY before Jayson was even in the picture. Brent and Steve got married in 2008 in California, before Proposition 8 was passed. And because of that and DOMA, Brent was deported. When both Prop. 8 and DOMA were overturned in 2013, that should have allowed for Brent to return to the US, but apparently US immigration refused his application to return to the US sometime after DOMA and Prop. 8 were defeated, and it most likely had nothing to do with Jayson since it was barely known there was even a throuple going on during that time.

          • Myko

            He was probably in the USA illegally at that point then, which is why he is struggling to get a Green Card.
            There are loads of gay porn performers who are trying to fake it when it comes to marriage to get green cards. The one sham that sticks in my mind is Theo Ford. If you look at his twitter he goes OTT with the “I love my husband” bullshit.
            They met, dated and got married within about 12 weeks – suspicious much ?

          • n24rc

            No. Brent was kicked out of the country because he was beyond the vacation stay. He also didn’t declare that he was working while he was in the US and paid no taxes. This happens all the time, for example a touring DJ cannot return to the states because he didn’t get the proper work permit.

            Border control caught Brent eventually, and then he tried to fix it by getting married. The throuple shit came after Brent’s application was DENIED – they wanted to save face and maintain the facade of a relationship.

            You know that Steve could go to Canada and get his citizenship. But yet he doesn’t, why? because it is a sham relationship!!!

            With all the issues the gay community faced trying to get this law passed, I think how Brent ends up using it as a means to an end is just disgusting.

          • n24rc

            I have stated numerous times online beforehand, that this is a sham relationship.

            I resent gay porn stars who take the mantle of gay rights when it only serves their purpose. They are totally self involved.

          • Porn Star

            Gay rights started because of the belief in sexual freedom. Know your history.

          • n24rc

            Know your place: inside AA.

          • andrew

            “a self absorbed white gay guy” Why was it necessary to add the racial classification?

          • WhimsyCotton

            *Cough* Bayard Rustin* Cough* Educate yourself please.

          • S. D.

            To obtain a green card based on marriage, you have to prove to the feds that it is “bona fide” marriage where numerous factors are considered like commingled bank accounts, living together, etc. I don’t think the U.S. citizen having a boyfriend on the side will ever qualify the marriage as being bona fide. Sorry Brent.

          • Jer

            Yeah, compared to my marriage theirs is just a joke. He is on my health insurance, car insurance, we own property together, same bank account, etc. If someone tried to make it a throuple I would end that thought very quickly. I don’t get how they all think any of this is real.

          • FrenchBug

            Well I try really hard not to judge what makes others happy but even SUGGESTING a throuple would be enough for me to send a future husband out of the door for good.
            But people are different so it is hard to pass judgement.

          • BjHAMMER

            I agree with U french who R we 2 judge ? different strokes 4 different folks but I am sorry it still sounds like a sham !

          • Porn Star

            I tried the “throuple” thing for 2 years. It lasted longer than most gay relationships, but we argued about what to eat for dinner AND everything else. Getting 2 people to agree is hard enough. It wasn’t for me.

          • TP

            That’s why I don’t see this lasting if Brent comes back, and if they do get back together. The three of them haven’t been together in the same place longer than 2 weeks AT MOST. Brent has lived alone for over 2 years, he has developed habits. The same goes for Steve and Jayson. Steve’s post was right, there are (or at least will be) too many incompatibilities.

          • n24rc

            It isn’t a judgement is there is a behavior pattern.

          • BjHAMMER

            Do they not believe that immigration ( ice ) does not search one’s facebook & twitter pages for SHIT like this ?

          • TP

            It’s called arrogance

          • lordgabux

            In what state do you live, Jer? I heard after marriage the immigrant partner has to go back to his country. But there are so many stories. It would be good to hear from and actual gay couple who went through the process. Thanks.

          • Jer

            We got married in Maine and moved to Illinois. Got his green card while living in Illinois. He never had to return to his home country throughout the whole process.

          • Webslinger

            No it is NOT that hard…something smells rotten in Denmark…

        • DPS

          Domestic violence is never acceptable regardless of the “arrangement” they have. Green card pursuit or not those violent domestic situations need to end. Airing it publicly is not a resolve but a symptom of how toxic things are. Brent’s comments were also symptomatic that he plays in to it. Just hoping all involved will get help.

          • ted cox

            It will be the U.S. Department of Immigration’s fault if this happens again. Oh, and the alcohol. It will be the alcohol’s fault too.

        • OneOfTheManyChris

          Well he’s a porn star. It’s obvious the marriage isn’t monogamous. Porn stars in relationships tend to be oddly picky about their sex lives. “I’ll do anything with anyone expect I only kiss my husband” or “It there’s a camera it’s not cheating, but escorting is not allowed.” It’s a way of keeping themselves sane. The one good thing I can say about the whole green card situation is that immigration probably hates the male/female porn marriages just as much.

          • Porn Star

            That is the dumbest thing I have ever read in my life. You need to change “porn star” to Most Gay Couples.

          • Jer

            Not all of us are whores, darlin’. Most gay couples I know are monogamous.

          • Or so they claim,

          • TP

            Speak for your own life, I’m bi but dating a man. Our arguments would never get physical.

          • n24rc

            I don’t think working in porn was the problem. I think the fact that Brent chose to stay in San Diego and work without any kind of visa – past the deadline for Vacations, that created the problem.

            There have been many other porn stars, from other countries, who successfully immigrated here. The reason being that they established residency and paid their taxes. They were forthcoming about these things and made sure to hire a lawyer to represent them. I don’t think the issue of being gay or a porn star is the problem. It is the deceit that is the problem.

    • Luca

      this is not abuse, for what we know it’s a fistfight between two people (not one over the other). That’s different.

      • NickDC

        That’s absolutely absurd!

        • Luca

          ok maybe it’s a question of language, but for me, an abuse (especially in a domestic setting) is meant to be one directional. There is an abuser and a victim. If two people start throwing punches at each other in a domestic context, I see it as fucked up, but not as an abuse in the strict sense of the word. Unless of course one of the two started fighting back after enduring abuse.

          (personally I also feel that “abuse” indicates a prolonged violent behavior and not just one outburst of violence, but perhaps that’s a nuance that’s just mine)

          • lordgabux

            I can see you point. If they were just two friends having a drunken fistfight would it be called abuse?

          • TP

            No, but once you add the word boyfriend, wife, or husband to it it changes the definition. in this case I agree it may not be abuse, but it IS domestic violence, whether it was once or 11 times, it is domestic violence. Abuse does seem to imply repeated occurrences. And abuse doesn’t have to have an agrivator and a victim. They could be abusing each other. That happens.

      • TP

        What the fuck?

  • sxg

    Well of course Brent is going to sound like he’s defending Steve Pena more, a lot of us have been noticing on social media that Brent really doesn’t say much about Jayson, until the gay porn blogs started noticing and it all of a sudden picked up out of nowhere. I still believe he’s not totally enjoying this throuple situation.

    Now onto the actual fight. So they both got punched once? Or how many times did Jayson get hit? How many times did Steve? All I see is one bruise on Jayson’s cheek, all while showing most of his face, and all Steve can muster up to showing is a welt above his eyes. Who hit who first? Who knows, but my wild guess would be is that Jayson got hit first and Jayson hit Steve as a retaliation. I could be completely wrong though, it’s just my guess.

    • FrenchBug

      Yeah it actually was my understanding that basically Pena and Smith were dating and Everett was mentioned as the “third” for PR reasons. Sounds the whole thing was actually even more messed up than that.

      • bronco clayton

        Lol Steve and Brent are married….what are you talking about?

        • FrenchBug

          That the rumor was that Steve had left Brent for Jayden (since Brent seemed to have little to do with Jayden) but that they officially called it a throuple to continue their (business) partnership.
          I have no information to that effect other than what I had understood from the rumors but Brent and Steve were married long before the throuple thing came up so it is perfectly plausible that they might still get along fine enough to make it work for PR reasons all the while Smith and Pena were now the real romantic item.

          • TP

            I don’t know how the thruple came about but it seems odd to me that Brent gets deported, so instead of staying in the home He shared with his husband in San Diego, He moves to cold ass D.C with someone who already has a place (when he could technically move to Canada with his husband because the canadian marriage is still legal) and less than six months (maybe), he starts dating Jayson. Then Brent is brought in and it’s equal love.
            Anyone else on here start a relationship long distance relationship via skype/facetime and it actually last? Anyone at all?

          • n24rc

            It is a sham relationship. The timeline you are describing indicates that they were using Steves residence as a place for Brent to stay at and earn income as a gay porn star.

            Brent didn’t declare his business or pay taxes. This is why he is never coming back to the states.

      • OneOfTheManyChris

        Is Brent still unable to enter the United States? Last I heard that was the reason (or supposed reason) behind the whole mess. It’s not much of a marriage when you live in different countries and one of the spouses has a boyfriend.

        • n24rc

          Brent lived in the states without a permit, and worked without a permit. He stayed beyond the four months maximum vacation stay. He basically got his ass handed to him for not obeying the laws and wasn’t invited back.

          • sxg

            4 months? I thought it was 6 months. Or maybe I’m thinking of when I traveled to Spain.

            But yes the US does not take lightly those that travel into the US without the right credentials, or overstay their welcome. Rogan Richards learned that the hard way when the US detained him for days to send him back to Europe because he came in without a work permit. They googled him and found all his porn lol.

            I know a few DJs doing the same thing and they were banned for years.

          • Myko

            I have heard of one guy that no longer does porn was banned from returning to the USA for 10 years for outstaying his welcome (visa)
            Are porn performers travelling on holiday visa’s or work visa’s though?

          • n24rc

            Holiday. They don’t declare their porn as a career or job (for obvious reasons). This is why they get caught because they travel back and forth so much and then end up caught not paying their taxes.

          • n24rc

            NO IT ISN’T SIX MONTHS !!!! That is commonly misinterpreted.

            Brent was irresponsible. He should have cleared his travel plans and stay before coming to the US; Or at least do what duck face does, and leave the country to return periodically to do his business.

            You wanna know what is the fastest way to become a US citizen. Pay your taxes from doing business here.

            I’m totally disgusted with Steve and Brent as they used the issue of gay marriage as a means to an end.

    • TP

      I’d put money on the fact that when “Brent” does mention Jayson, it’s Steve posting from his account. Keep in mind that Brent’s career is based on making it look like he and his scene partner have loving passion. Much easier to do in a few pics, interviews and a documentary that is probably paying them.

      • S. D.

        Does anyone know when the last time Brent (and not Steve) ever posted anything on Brent’s social media? Has it ever happened? The adage about gullible people comes to mind here.

        • TP

          I think some of the post are indeed Brent, but anyone who has followed these guys for a while, can obviously tell who’s who.

  • Todd

    Once again putting great use to social media. NOT. Maybe Michael Hoffman hit them both.

    • Myko

      It just shows porn performers have NO clue how to properly use social media for their careers.

      • TP

        Dude, these two (Steve and Jayson) shouldn’t use social media at all. Steve’s facebook is locked like every other month and he still post the same shit. his tweets are nothing but creeper shot, celeb dick, and throwing this throuple in everyone’s faces. If we’re lucky, he may mention Brent but thats mostly work related. Jayson, the big bad marine, tweets nonsense shit, his ass and slut shames underwear models. Keep in mind he used to be one but failed. When steve allows Brent to post on his own pages, it at least something relevant; art or fitness or enjoying non sexual nights with friends.

        • n24rc

          These are the kind of people that cannot live off of social media – because nothing is worth doing without anyone looking. You can clearly tell how much someone is a narcissist with the amount of selfie updates and the time spent online devoted to social media.

  • FrenchBug

    “Even during sex but that’s a different story”

    Who the fuck would want to make a cheeky sexual comment like that while talking about their “lovers” BEATING EACH OTHER UP in a drunken (in the best version) stupor, even as a mere aside?

    • TP

      I wouldn’t be surprised if Steve posted that whole thing using Brent’s account. Or it’s a P.R move

  • sxg

    Checking out Facebook right now, and noticed Steve has deleted a ton of pics with him and Jayson together. He missed a few of them, but also kept the pics with the throuple together. So far nothing looks deleted on Jayson’s FB page, still a lot of pics with him and Steve together.

  • czer

    Uh Oh, looks like a conscious unthroupling is on the horizon.

  • Lacourse

    Gay Porn Stars: When posting the obligatory “battered boyfriend” pic, don’t forget to include your dick in the photo. Then I’ll care.

  • WhimsyCotton

    Wait wait wait, are you telling me there isn’t equal amounts of love in a 3 way relationship!? What a revelation! Isn’t Steve in his mid 30s? Get your shit together girl, being a druggie is cute when you’re in your 20s. No one likes middle aged Peter Pans. #NotAgeist #DontKillMeSJWs

    • Spongey

      Girl please, Steve’s almost pushing 40! Messy, messy.

  • James Withers

    Unfortunately domestic violence is real in the LGBT community. If you’re a victim, PLEASE call the Anti-Violence Project at 212.714.1141

  • Steve posted a bunch of pictures of himself and Jayson at the DC Gay pride on instagram a few hours ago, after everything else was deleted from FB. As they sai on the news, “story still developing”.
    Anyway, there is no justification for hitting your significant other.

  • Jason

    How cute… They are Facebook friends again!

  • TalkDirtyToMe

    Since the cancellation of most of the soap operas, Facebook and other social media has adequately fulfilled my “All My Children” void. So thank you all you disfunctional people and your need to vent!

  • John

    Steve doesn’t come across as the abusive type, but I can see him getting slapped or hit and then hitting back…I think Jaysons learned a valuable lesson, don’t start someone you can’t finish.,…if Jayson gets kicked to the curb Steve will have a new boy by the end of the summer…but I believe they will kiss and make up especially with the picture Jayson posted on his twitter account buck ass naked waiting for his daddy to get home……if I am wrong Jayson and Brent need to get away from this abuser, no one should ever put up with that

    • sxg

      “Steve doesn’t come across as the abusive type”

      Come on, who does really??? Did we ever think that Johnny Rapid (before that creepy interview), Ryan Rose, The Jarics, Spencer Reed and whoever he beat up, and countless other current and former gay pornstars would turn out to be wife/girlfriend/husband/boyfriend beaters?

      These days everyone is pretty much fair game to become an abuser. They both should be grateful that it looks as though they only got hit once or twice instead of ending up like Ryan Rose’s ex. Google Bobby Hart to find the photos, I would post it but it’s watermarked with a website that isn’t this one!

      • John

        Ryan Rose does, the Jarics did and so does Spencer Reed…Johnny Rapid told us he beat his bitch up so yes all of the above mentioned does come across as the abusive type…true about the beat down Bobby Hart took, rose should have been thrown in jail for that….

  • Jer

    Is it wrong that when I saw this headline I laughed? Not due to the violence, but the fact that these deluded asshats have been SO self-righteous about this sham of a relationship and then this happens.

    • TP

      Hell, Steve himself called it an experiment. That true love right there *sarcasm*

  • TP

    You mean to tell me Pena was drunk enough to not be able to control his anger, but he wasn’t drunk enough to write such a coherent post about the relationship and it’s difficulties. When your that drunk, you can be Shakespeare so fucking fast. Yeah let’s blame the alcohol.

    Pena may never have hit Brent but he posted on FB once that Brent has thrown drinks in his face and they’ve had to be separated. Yeah, this marriage was a healthy one from the start and let’s not use the tired old “They are porn stars” like that justifies it. Plenty of porn starts leave the job on set and when they go home only focus on their spouse. Not in this case because “They love sharing their lives with us” the documentary should be titled “Im an attention whore” rather “I’m a porn star” or what ever it’s called.

    I wonder if all the people who comment on steve pics with the tired line “It such a beautiful love you all share” etc, still think it’s a beautiful love

    So is the 3way relationship done and trying to stay friends, or are they giving the 3way another go?

    • n24rc

      It isn’t a “marriage.”

  • TP

    Tina Turner did for a while too?

  • TP

    P.S, that’s not even remotely sexy. Just saying.

  • Horatio

    Last night I had a dream of Brent Everett getting fucked by Tyler Posey and blowing Dylan O’Brien.

    • Mike Julius

      Replace Tyler Posey with Tyler Hoechlin and you got yourself a deal.

  • Spongey

    I predicted all three of them getting back together but that was fast. Also, aren’t Brent & Steve legally married? Referring them as boyfriends seems odd.

    • TP

      they are married, but Steve seems to be more about Jayson than Brent. If he’s not tweeting creeper shots, or celeb dick, he’s promoting this 3way relationship. Im sorry but once it gets physical, it’s time to call it quits. Drunk is not an excuse. Because a Drunk man hitting his drunk wife, would not be acceptable and she’d be encouraged to leave and he’d be arrested. but I guess because it’s two guys it’s okay and can be worked out.
      If it were two buddies getting into a drunken fight, I might understand but when you call them your boyfriend things change and it becomes domestic violence. Sorry, but you can’t change the rules to fit your situation.

  • BjHAMMER

    If they had started out as a throuple from the very beginning things might be different but when you bring a 3rd party into a LOVING relationship for convenience purposes always never seems to end blissfully

  • Myko

    Yawn

    • TP

      Some things should stay private. Like their whole relationship. But it’s cool, I love a good laugh.

  • Cosmic

    Are all porn stars this fucked up or just these winners?

    • TP

      From many of the gay and straights star that I follow on social media, yes! The gay ones seem to be the messiest ones honestly.

    • Porn Star

      No…most gay men are fucked up. You just don’t hear about it, because nobody cares. Go to a nightclub and just observe. The majority are 25-40 and messy as fuck.

      • Jer

        Again, if your reference zone is gay men at nightclubs, then you’re going to think that most people are fucked up when most aren’t.

        • n24rc

          His point of references about gay culture is about nightlife and cruising. He has no ability to go beyond that, because that is where is bread and butter is. He makes a living off of his looks and nothing else. Clearly, he is jaded.

        • WhimsyCotton

          To be fair, I think that reference zone can be stretched to “gays in any major city.”

      • n24rc

        Pot calling kettle.

      • Cosmic

        Glad I stay out of nightclubs then.

        • andrew

          Do gay guys in 2015 actually use the word “nightclubs” to id gay bars and clubs?

          • mariodemocrat

            I say discotheque, natch.

      • andrew

        Most gay men rarely go to the gay bars and “nightclubs”.

      • Spongey

        Most gay men are not fucked up, just the clowns you hang out with. And fuck you for your vile tweet at me when I disagreed with your opinion.

  • B.

    Well it’s obvious that Steve is the Alpha in the relationship and both Brent and Smith are the Omegas (if not evidenced by the cheeky master and dog type pic they had then by how Brent is defending Pena) Pena wanted both of them so both of them agreed to it to be with Pena. Brent most likely is happy as a clam knowing that Smith will be (possibly) out of the picture and Brent can have Steve all to him self. Just goes to show the power of the Pinga… er I mean Pena.

  • Jay

    He’s never getting a green card through marriage to a gay guy as long as he does porn. Brent’s feelings for the Texas Douche may be genuine, but as long as he’s a sex worker–and public about it–the boy is never getting that card. As for that triad, that was just Steve Pena’s way to have all of his cake and eat it. As for the claim Pena was on drugs, I’m inclined to buy that–Steve Pena gives off a Mike Dozer sleazy kind of vibe. Jayson needs to just move on & find another DC A-hole to cozy up with….odds are that one will not be rolling (allegedly).

  • Donttryit

    3 gay guys in 1 relationship? Now who the hell didn’t see that plane crash coming? Only gay men…LOL

  • Mike Julius

    Meanwhile, Str8Up just highlighted how people who have their differences online should handle things: https://twitter.com/JPDuboisxxx/status/610513261008683008

    Gwyneth Paltrow wishes she had handled her split in such a classy way. 😉

  • andrew

    Thank the gods that most of us, who post on this site, are not sinners like the rest of men.

    • WhimsyCotton

      I would if I believed in them.

      • andrew

        WHAT? You have seen the god Thor in the person of Chris Hemsworth and the Magyar god Kris Evans in the flesh, and you are not a believer?

  • I wouldn’t just assume the drugs were or the recreational type, Steve Pena with his body like it is could be taking steroids and we all know they have a tendency to cause someone to be violent and short tempered.

  • TP

    was watching this episode of Dr. Phil and all I could think about was these 3 morons. http://www.drphil.com/shows/show/2305

  • Welt? All I could see was a bulging vein from Steve’s forehead.