Here’s A Preview Of Vadim Black And His Dumb Girlfriend, Kaitlyn, On MTV

Posted December 8, 2015 by with 68 comments

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This 60-minute advertisement for Men.com and Sean Cody is regurgitating the same boring gay-for-pay discussion that you can read in any porn blog’s comment section, but if you don’t have anything better to do tomorrow night at 8:30pm, here’s what will be on MTV:

As already mentioned, MTV is clueless (or they just don’t care) about Vadim Black’s anti-gay hate speech and murder threats, so don’t expect to see anything about that on the full episode. Also, I love that we’re supposed to believe that another one of his “girlfriends” doesn’t know about his gay porn career. What does Kaitlyn (of course her name is Kaitlyn) think the MTV cameras are doing there?

 

  • joe campbell

    Total utter Bullshit…. Luke or Vadim s’s story is so unbelievable its totally made up.. He is hot but this is all purely for Cash shock tactics by Mtv and bad acting
    Sean on the other hand is just a sad story…
    more parents getting it wrong

    • Galaxy_Scribe

      I went to college with a reasonably sized gay porn star. Within 72 hours of his first porn scene, everyone knew. Kaitlyn, do you have no gay friends?

      • Hereweare

        Name please! :-)

        • Galaxy_Scribe

          Jake steel

  • OverKill

    http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v234/3_foot_6/whogivesashit.gif

    I’m just tired of these alleged “g4p” and that damn label. Some of you already know I don’t believe in that label at all. I don’t care how much they scream it, type it, say it, whatever. Either accept who you are or get out of the gay porn business all together and these studios hire real gay men who enjoy gay sex with men. Studios get most of the blame for continuing to hire these “g4p” people.

  • prestes_antony

    Your boyfriend’s breath smells like cum boo. Get it together!!!
    https://media.giphy.com/media/aUACY1m2UUrgQ/giphy.gif

  • Stephen

    These documentaries make me uncomfortable…not only does it shatter the illusion of the fantasy that is porn, but it’s kind of saddening when you find out people like Sean are doing this because they’re desperate to provide for their families (and kudos to him). You hear argument after argument that these performers are doing it because they love sex and love the attention, but how many actually aren’t dysfunctional? Look at how JD Phoenix is crumbling before our very eyes with his drug addiction…look at how straight men are willing to fuck other guys out of desperation. I support sex workers and always will because they deserve rights, deserve health care, and deserve to be treated with dignity, but when I buy porn…what am I really supporting? And the James Deen rape allegations…how much of what we’re seeing on camera is actually something the actors are comfortable doing? Who can we even trust?

    I know I just come here to jerk off, but some of your posts really shine a light on certain issues. For instance, because of your blogs I’ve actually ended subs because of the racism of stars and I’m not going to put money into the pockets of studios who showcase these stars (yes, I actually ended my MEN sub because of the Paul Canon controversy…so, Zach, your word truly does have power in this industry). I’m sure I’m not the only one.

    Anyway, rant over…

    • John McKee

      Why do you assume that Sean is doing it out of desperation? Isn’t it completely possible that he does in fact enjoy gay sex even though he identifies as straight? He sure seems to, especially in his latest video. Haven’t we all slept with guys that we weren’t exactly into because we were horny and they were available? I mean he is getting off. And his wife knows about it and thinks it is hot, haven’t we all done things sexually that we wouldn’t be into except for the fact that it turned our partner on?

      I don’t know what he does or doesn’t enjoy maybe this show will shed a light on it but you are making a pretty big leap to say he is desperate when there are plenty of exbitionist straight identifed guys that have no problem sleeping with men for free.

      • Stephen

        Good point!

      • Maximus

        Yeah, but how many people who do porn actually have other viable career options?

        • beariac

          I’d like to think most, given that tending bar (just as an example) is something that pretty much anyone can do and still have time to be a fame whore. Everybody has choices, it comes down to which ones people make.

          Perhaps some also choose not to explore their other options, because (nearly?) 1 week’s money for 1 day’s work is alluring or suits their lifestyle.

          • Maximus

            Hmm. Maybe that’s true for the gay/bi men—although given the lack of safety regulation, shady characters, and social stigma associated with porn, I’d think most people would choose bar tending—but the G4P guys are going against their sexual orientation. That seems like a pretty extreme act, one which falls on the “Last Resort” end of the spectrum.

          • CA

            Are they going against their sexual orientation or just performing sex acts with men?

            Are you gay or bi right after getting your cock sucked or fucked by someone of the same sex?

            Those questions are what I think create the two camps in this G4Pay conversation. I don’t think the newer is yes to either.

            If a gay man is paid 4k to fuck a woman, is he straight?

            I don’t know why “gay sex” has to be so taboo that once someone participates in such an act, they must be part of the “club”.

            @disqus_idRbXNsMaI:disqus, I know you didn’t bring all those points up, but I just thought them as I was typing.

          • Maximus

            Those are good points. What I meant is that if we take a G4P performer at his word, then he is having sex with someone of the gender to which he is not attracted. Sean and Vadim claim to only have sex with other men as a way to make money. That isn’t just a matter of forcing themselves to have sex with someone they’re not into, it’s also a challenge to their self-concepts. A guy has to be really secure in his sexuality in order to do that. I’m fairly certain that most men who identify as straight would turn to crime as a means of supporting themselves before turning to gay porn, which leads me to believe that a lot of these G4P guys are pretty desperate.

            To address your other points, what I can say is that I do not personally believe that a straight man having sex with another man automatically makes him bi or gay. To me, straight = preference for the opposite sex, gay = preference for the same sex, bi = no preference. What that means is that incidental enjoyment of gay sex by a straight man doesn’t make him bi. Does that make him somewhat less straight? Yes, but the point is that he still falls on the straight end of the spectrum.

          • OneOfTheManyChris

            The whole concept of “gay” or “homosexual” as an orientation is fairly new. Before that there were men having sex with men, but it was taken as just something guys did when they had a chance to do it.

            I figure if he self-identifies as a straight man who likes to get fucked by men, then I’m not going to be able to tell him otherwise. How could I?

        • Pearl Clutcher

          Plenty of them.

        • ★✽ starchild ✽★

          but they can do other things (they can go to school get a degree or take up a trade or they can network by using the platform they have attained from doing porn). They just get lazy and get used to making decent money doing gay porn (that they could never make in str8 porn because it’s all about the female), and it spoils them.

          • Maximus

            Right, because higher education is so affordable and well-paying jobs are so plentiful in America…

          • ★✽ starchild ✽★

            there are plenty of people who don’t come from money, but they find a way to pay for school, it just depends on how determined one is and what they are willing to do to improve their circumstances.

          • Maximus

            Just because some people are able to do it doesn’t mean that anyone can. Variables such as upbringing, health, local/state financial assistance programs, race, religion, nationality, social capital, and luck all impact how easy or difficult it is for one to get an education.

          • ★✽ starchild ✽★

            it’s because g4p performers are spoiled by gay men such as yourself, that’s the primary reason, they want easy quick money and will start a go-fund-me account in a HEARTBEAT instead of getting out there and POUND THE PAVEMENT like anyone else would/could do & look for SOMETHING.

          • Maximus

            https://media3.giphy.com/media/PIafMBpl3Dc2Y/giphy.gif

            1) I do not support G4P performers. If it were up to me, gay porn would only feature gay men.
            2) You clearly know nothing about contemporary social problems. You are oversimplifying an incredibly complex issue. Whether or not someone is able to find employment depends upon a myriad of individual, cultural, and societal factors, as well as a degree of dumb luck.
            3) My point is that people usually end up doing sex work because they do not have many other career options, which is why I agree with the notions proposed by Stephen in his original post.

          • ★✽ starchild ✽★

            after reading your reply, i guess i’ll concede.

      • Mike Julius

        Anyone get the impression that Sean’s wife wanted to watch her husband with another guy and they thought, Hey, why not get paid too?

        Anyway, Sean aside, there are other men and women who only do porn to support their families. If you think about it as any other line of work where the employee doesn’t want to put in said work, it’s fine. Because it’s sex, however, it FEELS icky to have someone perform sex acts so that person can feed their kids.

        • n24rc

          Well, that is because you like to live in fantasy world.

    • Pearl Clutcher

      For every one of them who’s desperate and messy there’s at least another one who’s having fun and is in it for the travel and the money and other sexy reasons. It’s not worth thinking about too deeply. At least in my world it’s not.

    • WhimsyCotton

      JD Phoenix was a mess from Day 1. He never crumbled; he’s always been damaged goods.

    • ★✽ starchild ✽★

      Bravo to you (‘I’ve actually ended subs because of the racism of stars and I’m not going to put money into the pockets of studios who showcase these stars”), i feel the same way, and i’m glad that blogs like this and others shine the light on how these men truly are off camera, granted it does shatter the fantasy, but it’s good to know one’s true character, so bravo to this blog and countless others that shine the light on bigots/racists and homophobes who consistently take the gay dollar for granted.

  • Tim

    Ben/Sean’s wife thinks it’s hot? well, then I guess he’s got a great gig going. gets to indulge himself in gay sex that he (and she) obviously enjoys. gets paid to do it. gets to come home to loving kids and family? eh, the guy is bi, no doubt, and I’m happy for him.

    • OneOfTheManyChris

      There’s still this weird double standard about gay sex, like somehow the mere existence of it in your life contaminates you with teh gahz. No one would think it impossible if he had a mistress, or if he made straight porn, or if they were into MFF three-ways, or if she made porn and slept with men and women she wasn’t particularly interested in having a relationship with.

      From what I’ve heard, on the set of these g4p productions they go out of their way to make the experience as un-gay as possible: straight porn on the walls, carefully set up the shots, fake a lot of angles, let them use mouthwash after every kiss, numb their butts, inject them with all sorts of nasty enhancement drugs, even bringing wifey onto the set to help.

    • Galaxy_Scribe

      Exactly. Your wife likes it, so why go on national tv? The scrutiny from their friends and family should be so much fun to deal with.

      • John McKee

        Why not? I mean I know my dad isn’t exactly thrilled by the idea of all the gay sex I am having but it doesn’t cause issues in our relationship and he wouldn’t be bothered if I showed up in his morning newspaper at a gay pride parade.

        If his wife enjoys it, he isn’t hiding anything, why the fuck should he care if his family or friends “approve”. I think this is between him and his wife.

        • Tim

          bingo.

        • Galaxy_Scribe

          Pride parade is one thing, being spitroasted on the internet is another. If your significant other approves, why invite the rest of the world to comment on it? Just unnecessary complications.

          It stopped being “between him and his wife” when he invited cameras into their home.

          • Scrapple

            People were going to trash them on the internet anyway. In fact, people were already slamming Sean and his wife after his solo. We live in an age where people will use any method at their disposal to peek into the offscreen lives of porn models. All it takes is someone knowing your social media info, and it’s a wrap. That’s what happened with Sean, and posters were putting his business out in the streets. I see nothing wrong with them wanting to take ownership of the situation, and show they’re not embarrassed by Sean’s line of work.

          • Galaxy_Scribe

            That’s a surprise since both his porn and IRL name are common whitebread names.

          • WhimsyCotton

            That’s racist.

          • Galaxy_Scribe

            Uhhuh.

          • WhimsyCotton

            Don’t try to gaslight me! I have no ulterior motives by calling you out other than to prevent the spread of racism against all people!

          • WhimsyCotton

            Good for him and his wife. Sometimes we gays can be incredibly judgmental. If a straight guy is willing and able to perform in gay porn, who are we to deny him a job? Attacking him and putting his personal life out there for everyone to judge is fucked up, but at least now he can regain some control over the situation.

      • OneOfTheManyChris

        They’re paid to do this. Kaitlyn is paid to act like she didn’t already know. She sat down with the producers and they decided how they would “recreate” the moment where she found out. It probably pays better than sucking dick on camera. Of course they wanted to do it.

        I’m sure everyone he cares about already knows by now. It just takes one person in your social circle to check out men.com and it’s over.

        • Galaxy_Scribe

          True on being “outed”. But why go on TV and take it from probable to definite?

          • Dutch Courage

            Because the money MTV offered was just too damn tempting!

          • Christian

            You don’t get paid to appear on True Life since it’s classified as a documentary. These hoes just did it for notoriety!

  • Todd
    • Joey

      I JUST watched that early ANTM episode where he made this reaction and LOL’d so HARD thinking about this now being a popular reaction gif. Oh, internet.

  • Maximus
  • Galaxy_Scribe

    Vadim, you’re an idiot. Kaitlin, where are your gay friends?

    Sean, you’re a dumbass. If your wife supports you doing porn, that’s all that matters. Way to invite the whole world to comment on your life.

  • Todd

    Kaitlyn really is a very stupid name … https://media.giphy.com/media/11Gs1uKLVaXCx2/giphy.gif

  • joe campbell

    I’m with you buddy . I do believe in gay for pay but I also believe in Bullshit and I smell it big time off these guys
    Straight …. To bed indeed

  • bob80

    Vadim’s gf doesn’t know? Did I get that right? Where does she think the money come from, and those MTV cameras too? It looks like some typical reality TV BS in order to create fake drama.

  • john

    Who cares about his “true life”…he needs to bottom more,has a small dick for a top

  • sxg

    I hope these two didn’t decide to do this to become fame whores. Because it’s not going to work. The last G4P pornstars to announce to the public their profession (Billy Brandt, Reese Rideout, Dean Coxx, Aaron James) pretty much vanished out of the spotlight. In fact, more people found them to be disgusting more than anything else!
    http://i.imgur.com/g3jOJ.jpg

  • brock

    I don’t understand what’s so hard to understand about G4P pornstars. Plenty of gay men have had sex with women, sometimes for decades or their whole lives, because they needed to in order to survive in a homophobic environment/society. Similarly, although on a much smaller scale, some guys try to get into modeling, or stake their whole careers on it, but the most lucrative way to do that if you don’t make it big is gay porn. The amount of drugs used to keep these guys hard, and how grueling the sets are, show that this isn’t just some pleasurable hookup for them. They’re clearly doing it for the money. I believe them when they say they’re straight.

    On an unrelated note, I wonder what the protocol was for getting permission from their scene partners used in the MTV documentary. Like, if I was Forrest and they didn’t get my permission to use my face when promoting this on MTV I’d be hella pissed

    • Pearl Clutcher

      I agree. I don’t think we can figure out much of anything about these guys’ orientation based on the sex they have on camera for money. Who do they fuck off-camera for free? That’s the question.

    • CA

      I agree–except Sean/Ben said he had had sex with men in his solo pre-MTV.

      I assume half of the stuff coming in this doc are half-truths just like their SC scenes.

      • Mihcael Davies

        of course it’s half truth, it’s reality TV for god’s sake. Just the preview alone already shows the terrible acting in Vadim’s little scene ughhh

      • brock

        Very true. And I’m a firm believer that sexuality is very fluid. It doesn’t have to be either closeted married gay men who turn to porn solely to live out their fantasies, or completely straight men who are repulsed every time they have to have gay sex for their “careers.” Maybe he’s married but also experiments a bit with men (although actually shooting gay porn very rarely resembles what actual sex is).

  • Okosan

    Vadim’s girlfriend is so stoned throughout this it’s actually pretty funny how stupid she looks also she looks really young like High school young i hope i’m not the only one that finds that creepy.

  • WhimsyCotton

    This seems entertaining enough with a pinch of delusion to make it worth viewing.

  • Swifty

    All I can say is…

  • Myko

    In true MTV style scripted and acted bullshit. I wonder how many takes of this so called real tv did they do to get the “money shots”

  • Gazzaq

    I suppose making this career choice as a porn model, getting paid reasonably ok for it in the short period of time you participate in it and being adore by lots and lots of men giving the models an ego boost is a bonus. It beats working in low paid employment for some.
    Also you can tell the changes since SC change of ownership. In the old days models discussing their personal lives just would not happen…

  • Mihcael Davies

    Vadim: “I hope nothing ever tears us apart, not even the worst.” Nice to know that you consider doing gay porn as “the worst” Vadim -___-

    I don’t even care if MTV gave him a script, that’s still shit to say

  • Russell47

    I’m going to be bitchy (No!) Someone should email a copy to Vadim’s idol…..Vlad Putin!

  • hotdickcum

    Sounds like that show called Gigolos where they pretty much scripted everything and paid those ladies to have sex with the dudes.

  • Marcus Collack

    I don’t think it’s fair to call her dumb, they call it a closet for a reason. Unless someone breaks down the door, you don’t know what’s inside until the owner chooses to open it.

  • Maxine Mesmer

    uh