Exclusive: Gay-For-Pay Porn Star Kurt Wild Arrested For Threatening To Murder His Wife In Front Of Their Three Children

Posted August 16, 2019 by with 72 comments

0005Former gay-for-pay porn star Kurt Wild made headlines throughout his career for his repeated retirements and comebacks, being fired from Subway, and his appearance on a 2009 episode of The Tyra Banks Show, where he discussed the then taboo topic of being a straight man working in gay porn. Today, Wild is making headlines for a very different (and very disturbing) reason: Threatening to slit his wife’s throat.

Thanks to a reader tip, Str8UpGayPorn can report that Kurt Wild (legal name Calvin Cornelius) was arrested in Houston, Missouri last month following an alleged assault on his wife in the couple’s home, and he’s now facing multiple felony and misdemeanor charges while being held on a remarkably high $1,000,000 bond. Here’s his mug shot:

According to the Texas County Sheriff, Wild threatened to slit his wife’s throat, grabbed her by the hair, and wielded a knife back on July 16th, causing the wife to flee the home and later call the police from her place of employment. All of this, according to police, was done in front of three of Wild’s children.

33-year-old Wild has now been charged with felony armed criminal action, kidnapping, domestic assault, and unlawful use of a weapon. He’s also facing three counts (one for each child present) of endangering the welfare of a child, per court records:

cak4Wild (who actually has at least seven children now, but only three of them were there during the alleged assault) remains locked up pending trial, but his lawyer has scheduled a hearing next week to try and reduce the $1,000,000 bond. If convicted of all four felonies, Wild could be sentenced to at least 10 years in prison.

Here’s the entire Tyra episode featuring Wild and another gay-for-pay performer, “Aaron,” from CollegeDudes, in case you somehow haven’t seen it over the last 10 years:

  • stephen
  • This is very sad to hear about, met him once and have chatted with him over the years. Really seems out of character for Calvin

    • Kanaka

      Yeah…ya think you know someone you’ve chatted online with huh?

  • GossipBoy

    How weird… he seems to be a nice guy, he still looks young and cute!
    I know it’s never ok to use a knife against you’re wife (maybe a fry pan?) but maybe she was being rude to him or being disrespectful I dunno… I think we should consider both sides before judging.

    • Tempest

      That’s never an excuse to use a weapon against another individual in front of kids. What are you, 14? What the fuck is wrong with you?

      • GossipBoy

        I know it’s not an excuse, I already said that lol
        but I dunno… he doesn’t seem like the type of guy that uses knives against people just couse

        • Kos12345

          Come on, just admit you are wrong. “He/she made me angry, so I used violence, you have to understand me” is the most common excuse of attackers, we should never acknowledge that excuse as a reason for violence.

          • GossipBoy

            yeah, you’re right!
            I’ll edit my comment :’3
            Thanx

    • Jace

      Is this an attempt at satire? Because…

      https://media0.giphy.com/media/d9UFBdPtWCxwVgE8uw/giphy.gif

      • GossipBoy

        haha sorry <3

    • Quinton Jackson

      Young and cute? Bish where!?

      • GossipBoy

        Well! In the Tyra Banks Show, of course!

        • Quinton Jackson

          Hunnie that episode aired back in 2007. Sis has definitely aged since.

          • GossipBoy

            Oh my D’:
            I-It’s been that long already? :'(
            A-Anyway… I still think both Aaron and Kurt are cute … I wonder if Aaron did more scenes…

          • Quinton Jackson

            Aaron was a hoe back in the day. He has one scene where some guy shot up his ass, come to think of it I think that was Ms. Kurt. I think.

          • GossipBoy

            Well, Aaron was really hot 7//7
            Didn’t Kurt cum inside his mouth? that was hot.
            Uhm I wanna see that scene you’re talking about, do you know where I can find it?

  • Bennett Anderson

    this is really sad and troubling to hear. considering that the last article i saw in reference to him was him loosing his job at subway because a customer recognized him. i think some of that may have finally boiled over.

    • GossipBoy

      Oh my… that’s sad if you consider he has a lot of children and a wife to take care of!

      • Bennett Anderson

        yes it is sad to think that you aren’t employable or that your job or livelihood is in jeopardy because someone saw you naked once. At the same time, this is a fact and you need to be personally responsible for your choices.

        • GossipBoy

          I understand, poor guy :'(

  • Estelle

    The subway thing was years ago and I don’t know if it was even true or just a publicity stunt. He was a mess back when he was in porn. One instance he was drunk/high doing a cam show and ranting about not being cast in a duckface Lucas film (back when they were still halfway decent) and one of his kids walked in the room and his poor wife had to run in there covered up and grabbing the kid.

    Sad he kept having kids and apparently has done nothing to break the cycle of poverty and abuse.

    • GossipBoy

      wow, is this a fact?!
      What a mess, huh?

    • Scrapple

      I completely forgot about that camming incident until you mentioned it. She threw something over that kid and grabbed him/her up with the quickness. Poor child just wanted to go to daddy. At least one of the parents was keeping a sound mind that day.

    • youbitchesneedscience

      I also vaguely recall reading about an incident where he allegedly said or posted some mean but accurate things about Israel and the Palestinians and caused duckface’s nose to bleed from anger. Miss Lucas has no patience with sympathy for Muslims…

      • Matt the Bruins fan

        Are you sure that wasn’t just the cocaine at fault?

  • Xzamilloh
  • Kevin Jones

    He has Seven kids?! Good grief!

    • Bennett Anderson

      seven kids and got let go from subway… lots of stress

      • Mister Sterious

        Boy you’re really hung up on that Subway thing. That was about 10 years ago. That has nothing to do with what happened recently.

        • GossipBoy

          maybe not, but who knows what else has happened to him, I think he needs help.
          I’m glad his wife and children didn’t get hurt.
          What I’ worried about is that, they’ve been togetherfor so many years and something tell me this isn’t the first time this kind of event has happened.

        • Bennett Anderson

          if you read the context of my multiple comments, it was example of how he couldn’t find employment outside of porn and how it could have added unnecessary stress to his life with 5 kids and a wife.

          * the psychological effects of not being able to support your family.
          * Considering your self straight and trying t o navigate your sexuality in his career.

          there are a lot of factors that went into the decline. subway was the only example of his employment i can give outside of his photography career because i have no idea how much he made pursuing that.

        • BLACKjHAMMER

          Maybe he can’t face reality and admit that he likes men and perhaps his wife knows that

  • Kanaka

    A million dollar bond?! Damn.

  • Ant

    it’s safe to say he needs therapy, mental health evaluation. Alcoholism is a brain disease, alongside his other issues

  • AJ

    Honestly, none of this surprises me.

    With all of the sad stories about him (the breakdowns, the alcohol problems, etc.), it was only a matter of time before something this massive occurred. He’s needed help for years and the signs were all there — but most folks laughed it off and kept kissing his ass because he was attractive and knew how to take a d*** onscreen.

    I honestly don’t know if anyone knows this, but there are recent videos of him of another porn site dedicated to underwear fetishes. I don’t know if this connects to his current predicament, but it seems as if his career turn as a photographer didn’t do as well as he hoped it would.

    I genuinely do feel for him, though. He did seem pretty nice through social media (he has a public Facebook, if you know where to look) and he appeared to have gotten his life in order somewhat after deciding to leave adult entertainment. But again, looks are apparently deceiving.

  • Scrapple

    Crazy to think about where he started at Corbin Fisher to this. If the wife is the same woman he has been with since high school, that’s even more disturbing. You’ve been involved with someone for like two decades, you liked/loved them enough to have multiple kids with them, and you threaten their life? In front of your kids? That’s not even close to how you deal with everyday stress.

    I remember when Ryan Idol got arrested for attacking his girlfriend with at toilet lid. At the time that seemed shocking. Now it’s like you hear so many of these domestic assault or violent crime stories in relation to porn that when a new mugshot pops up it’s like “I wondered who would be next.”

    • James Johnson III

      Corbin Fisher? Wasn’t he at CollegeDudes before that?

      • D Will

        I can’t exactly remember which was first but i believe at the start of his career, he worked for Corbin Fisher, Chaosmen, and College Dudes. Corbin Fisher being where i saw him first.

      • Scrapple

        No, he was still finishing high school at Corbin Fisher. When he arrived at ChaosMen he had turned nineteen and apparently already had a couple of kids. Bryan used to do photography for CF, so I’m guessing that’s how Kurt’s manager new of the site. College Dudes came after or possibly during his CM run.

  • M__M

    Seven kids? From the same baby mama? in 2019 and not the 1800’s?

    He also has a photography business, iirc and I though he was doing well with it, right? Sucks that he just threw it all away like that.

    • Zachary Sire

      I can’t confirm if all 7 are from the same wife.

    • youbitchesneedscience

      Trying to make money as a photographer is kinda like trying to make money as an actor. And unless you’re doing a booming wedding business, finding work is all about networking and contacts and none of the people you need to know live in Ass Crack, Missouri.

  • JT

    He does still look good, I mean c’mon you can’t objectively say he’s not still a cutie. Usually when we see mugshots of these guys they look like hammered shit. He was such a superstar in the biz, he could’ve kept it going. I always felt that his whole “straight” life and the problems he has with it is because he really is gay and never came to terms with it. I know I’m just speculating but there could be some serious truth to that. If he started having kids with this woman back in high school he may never have been able to figure himself out, then did porn for money and an outlet for the urges, and is now stuck. The whole thing is very sad, and he looks so sad in that mugshot. I really feel bad for his kids most of all. When they’re adults and realize what their father did onscreen and off it’s going to totally fuck them up.

    • GossipBoy

      I agree 100%
      Glad to know I’m not the only guy that thinks he’s cute u.u’r

    • Edward

      I would think twice about judging pornstars career choice. If he did this to provide for his kids, who are we to judge? The domestic issues is a whole other can of worms. Poor kids.

      • Mr. X

        You mean to tell me that “straight” guy could find no other job besides doing GAY porn? And then he claims he didn’t like it and wasn’t happy about doing it and money was the only factor? LOL!!!

      • Mihcael Davies

        Give me a break!!!!

    • bg

      Oh shit I was waiting for a comment like this and sadly you didn’t disappoint

    • Mr. X

      Middle America plain, boring white boy.

  • sxg

    The only thing memorable from that Tyra Banks show is Dean Coxx’s sexy ass! He has since bottomed for his website too.

    • Kurtis Wolfe

      From Wikipedia: Houston is a city in Texas County, Missouri, United States. The population was 2,081 at the 2010 census.

      • sxg

        Yay our resident Mizzeruh pornstar was here to respond!

  • Ninja0980

    Honestly,I’ve always Kurt is someone who is truly gay yet still can’t admit that to himself which is why his life seems to have turned out the way it has.
    Still doesn’t give him a pass for what he did and he deserves to get locked up.

  • Chad Stace

    I hope he gets the help he needs.

  • Paul Jones

    He does still look hot! However, such a sad story… let’s hope he gets help when he goes to jail.

  • Badbike

    OMG that Tyra episode was THE MOST! “it’s Christmas Day, Do you like to give present or receive them?”

    So what is it with questionable Gay 4 Pay performers losing their damn mind and being abusive to their real like partners/family? I’m sorry but am I seeing a trend? Johnny Rapid, Sebastian Young (though he is a extreme level of evil.) and others.

    Side Note: Those eyebrows remind me of every drag queen I know of out of makeup and his real name sounds like a comic book character sidekick.

  • BWAHAHAHAHA

  • Burkeman

    I cannot say that episode of the Tyra Banks Show was well researched- the questions were bizarre- but Banks, in my opinion, was a great presenter.
    A big appearance fee is the only reason I have for these men appearing on that episode, especially those who did not do porn and, therefore, had nothing to promote.

    • a b

      She was homophobic as shit

      • youbitchesneedscience

        She forgot to smize. I was never a fan of Ms Banks. She’s no Oprah – and only seemed interested in feeding her audience trash.

  • CamCam

    This is horrifying news. I hope justice is served whichever way it goes but my heart goes out to his family.

  • Galaxy_Scribe

    When the legal name is more porn-y than the porn name

  • 0NeedHelp

    he still looks hot….

  • I need more deets on this subway thing…
    all those kids? sounds he’s overcompensating

  • Mr. Copper

    “Straight” or not, Kurt Wild was one of the OG “Cock Destroyers”. He could (happily!) take any amount of inches that were thrown his way.
    But, sounds like he’s also a life destroyer.

    • Marcus Collack

      but according to him, it wasn’t happily. He went out of his way to make a point of this.

      • Mr. X

        If he didn’t like it and wasn’t happy about doing it, maybe he would have applied for a job at Togo’s (since his history with Subway isn’t very good).

  • Donkeyteefus

    he was such a hot bottom

  • Marcus Collack

    I remember when he said he was doing Gay Porn for the money to support his wife and children…obviously that was a lie, cause he doesn’t really seem to care about them.

  • JT

    And here’s his wife. Now I officially think he’s gay! I mean wow, not even remotely attractive. And he always looks so pretty. His photography on his FB page is pretty good though, looks like he was making a living with it. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/cf38e8b22cec221b5fc9836ac3f0fd65d07cdc8fd3984e54bb946a348881c870.jpg

  • Devin

    Surprised it didn’t happened sooner. 7 kids and pretending to be something you’re not. Anyone who has watched his scenes should know Kurt loves dick. I can’t even imagine the struggles that must be going on inside of this guy’s head. I used to want a kid, but couldn’t see myself marrying a woman. Now, I don’t even want a kid. Thank God I didn’t have one. It’s too expensive out here in California and kids need so much attention. No thanks

  • OneOfTheManyChris

    Kurt is the one that was drunk camming and had a child crying Daddy! walk in on him…