Ryan Rose Posts Public Apology To Ex-Boyfriend Ethan Slade

Posted May 25, 2015 by with 112 comments

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They broke up just last week, but Ryan Rose is already looking to make amends with ex-boyfriend Ethan Slade.

Ryan Rose may have already won Performer Of The Year, but will this public apology be enough to win back the love of his life?

11013369_499094050241586_4028344915788141718_nI think he’s being a little too hard on himself?!

Meanwhile, Ethan Slade was not pleased to see photographs of Ryan with other models:

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(For the record, Str8UpGayPorn never tagged Ethan in any tweets or photos; it appears that a fan tagged Ethan and then included a link to a retweet of Ryan’s.)

Will Ethan Slade forgive Ryan Rose?

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  • Lemar

    I knew Ryan had to have done something.

  • Mike Julius

    This is news to no one but your die hard stans.

    • Todd

      And perhaps Liam Riley, who just tweeted “There’s a million reasons why I should give you up but the heart wants what it wants.”
      L’amour, Manure ….

  • seeker630

    Obviously Ryan has a lot of problems. I can’t forget his assault on then-boyfriend Bobby Hart.

    • FrenchBug

      Never understood why he got a pass from everyone on this. Why is he any better than Johnny Rapid? Is violence OK when it is a gay relationship?

      • andrew

        “got a pass from everyone” What? Don’t you read the posts by many posters who constantly bring up the beating he gave Bobby Hart?

        • FoineThen

          You’re hung up on the word everyone. Truth is, way too many people gave him a pass almost immediately.

          • andrew

            Where did these “way too many people” give Ryan a pass “almost immediately” for the beating he gave Bobby Hart? Not on this or a few other porn blogs that I read. If it was on Twitter, that’s why I missed it, because I don’t tweet or follow all the Twitter nonsense.

          • FrenchBug

            Did his career pause for even a second? Was it destroyed, hindered? Did it stop? Not only none of those things happen but he actually got promoted heavily through it all and became one of the busiest and biggest names in the industry without even a short stop to Contrition Town.
            So yeah he got a pass from the industry on this. It is not surprising. It is however extremely shameful.

    • John

      wow I did a google on that Hart beating and the photos were brutal….I didn’t care for Ryan one way or the other but him pummeling a guy half his size is disgusting…..now i am really puzzled by why everyone still loves this guy, Ethan should be lucky he didn’t catch a beat down on the way out……maybe thats not fair because I don’t know why he put that boy in the hospital but it shouldn’t have come to that with the size difference….

  • Todd

    Christ ……… I’d rather tune in to another episode of Twinks Of Our Lives.

    Why the public drama ? Keep it private and keep it classy. Sheesh.http://33.media.tumblr.com/13c8df1ff24c7cb10b846bbdb86ee3da/tumblr_inline_nok2cpAnws1t8xgg4_500.gif

    • sammy1023

      To the love of my “live”? Geesh….

    • DPS

      Thanks for Sheesh not geesh, LOL! Much preferred term ๐Ÿ˜‰

  • GN

    I’m inclined to throw a shady meme at the guy cause he can be a tool, (as he himself just admitted) but you gotta give credit where credit is due, and he is openly admitting to his human flaws which is big of anybody to do. I bet it’s cathartic. It’s best to relent on the shade, when you see a human side to somebody. If you’re reading this, here’s the bottom line, Ryan. Learn humility. Learn sincerity. I know they seem as worthless qualities in your industry. But It will outlast your looks. It will outlast your social media fame. It will outlast a Grabby. It will last long after you are gone. It is what you leave people, to keep. They cannot keep you looks or your fame, once there’s no flesh to carry it. The best of you is what you give people as your testament. Anything less is not a real gift.

    • Todd

      When someone shows you who they really are, believe them the first time.

      • GN

        The guy who is my best friend now, when I met him 8 years ago, I would have sooner pushed him out into traffic than to befriend him. Now, I can’t do without his company. People do change and people do learn from their mistakes. Admitting the need for change is the first step in that process. Whether he is being sincere or not, only time will tell. Are you saying you’ve always behaved perfectly, never missing a stride in your life?

        • Seahawksfan

          We all want to believe in redemption and second chances. But Ryan Rose has had more than his fair share of chances. Your experience with your friend renews our hope and faith in humanity. Some people can change. Ryan simply reminds us of the harsh reality that most people who behave like he has consistently don’t change. The old phrase “Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.” applies here. Chronic sociopathic behavior is almost never “curable”. It is a deep character flaw. Ryan is a narcissistic borderline sociopathic personality and always will be. It is too bad that his looks allow him to get away with it time and time again.

          • Zachary Sire

            LOL! Even a licensed psychologist would never attempt to clinically diagnose someone based on social media posts. I don’t know what you think Ryan is “getting away” with? He broke up with his boyfriend and now he’s saying sorry. This happens every day with thousands of couples…only difference here is that it’s playing out publicly.

          • Todd
          • Jay

            That “sorry” should have been done in private…and not for the benefit of a few thousand twitter followers. All of these stupid little porn bitches need to be adults and keep their problems out of public view. Fix yourselves without an audience…but can’t do that, can they? The self-absorption is rampant.

          • GN

            If he’s clearly guilty of anything, It’s that he allowed the 15 minutes to go to his head. He’s kind of admitted that in the post, didnt he? Putting his hands on the boyfriend is certainly inexcusable. A sociopath? That word is tossed around too liberally these days. A jerk is a jerk. Hitler was a sociopath. Do you know something about Ryan we don’t? Has he put people in ovens?

          • sxg

            I miss Pierce, but even in some of his BTS stuff at SC you can tell he was a little bit of a douche lol.

          • Todd

            No, just hospitals.

          • Mike Julius

            Hitler is A famous sociopath. Sociopaths are more common than you seem to believe. Ryan may or may not be a sociopath, but you seem to be under the impression that sociopaths and narcissists have to commit genocide before they can qualify as such.

            Nope.

            You and Ethan should probably read this article: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/08/23/11-signs-dating-a-sociopath_n_3780417.html

  • Zealot

    I tend to look askance at public apologies and breast-beatings. I mean, who is that sort of thing meant to help feel better? This could just as easily be re-opening some very painful memories for Ethan. In my opinion this should be a private matter, and Ethan deserves to have a face-to-face opportunity to hear what Ryan has to say…but even more importantly, he deserves a chance to say what HE needs to say to Ryan, in person, and in private. Once that’s done they can issue some kind of joint statement if they choose, but frankly, I don’t think airing your dirty laundry in public is very classy. They either forgive and move on or continue ripping the band-aid off keeping things raw and unhealed. Not good for anyone.

  • Dave

    So you gave up what you had with Ethan, for Liam Riley?? are you fucking kidding me. Talk about pretty much robbing the cradle LOL. Ryan is so 2 faced and will get what he deserves. So it appears Liam is a little home wrecker…SURPRISE!!! Can’t stand listening to his drivel on YouTube and Twitter. Won’t be long until Ryan moves on to someone else, I mean I can’t imagine listening to that voice for more than 5 minutes. Ryan is a cheater has been and always will be, you’ve been warned Liam. You think he’ll change for you? He’ll be done with you once he gets all he wants out of you, bank on it. This won’t last long & I can already see the twitter drama & meltdown Liam will have and expect us to feel sorry for him, you are the most pretentious little thing I’ve ever seen.

    • Diogenes Veritas

      please say this is a joke.

      • Dave

        what’s funny about it?

  • John

    i get the sense that Ethan can do way better than Ryan, he should thank him for the very public apology and move on to something new….I could be wrong but Ryan comes across as the type of guy who is all about Ryan and always will be and will never be satisfied with his relationship….Ethan is right action speaks louder than words…..

  • sxg

    “I think heโ€™s being a little too hard on himself?!”
    Aww Huckabee, why does that comment not surprise me? ๐Ÿ˜‰

    You may know a bit more than us, but I’m sure there is still plenty that we don’t know that happened in their relationship that makes Ryan see himself this way.

    If Ethan were smart, he wouldn’t immediately take Ryan back, but let Ryan prove to Ethan that he’s changed for the better. But I have a feeling Ryan doesn’t have that type of patience and will permanently move on by the end of this week.

  • Read it…

    • andrew

      Shocking that a former Marine would be “pro guns.”

      • FrenchBug

        And a Republican to boot.

        • but he is hot so it is OK that he is Republican…

          • FrenchBug

            And a domestic abuser. And a “horrible person”.

          • But he is HOT…so HOT…so that it is OK…

          • txsaneman

            Love it! So true. As long as someone is hot in the modern gay world, all sins are forgiven almost instantly.

          • n24rc
          • sxg

            It happened with Chris Brown! Some thirsty girls at my college brought up the rumors that Rihanna gave Chris herpes every time people mentioned the scandal, as if that supposed to be a good reason for what he did.

          • andrew

            Fortunately, I haven’t seen a single post on gay blogs, that I read, where people have excused Ryan’s beating of Bobby because of something Bobby might have done to cause it.

          • FoineThen

            Is he really though?

          • No he is not as I can not separate the stupid and criminal things that he has said and done to others…many can because it is important that they have something to stroke off to…but because he does porn this has been equated to HOTNESS and well…it should not be…but alas this is a porn site…

          • McM.

            Sometimes it’s interesting to witness gay men respond to the halo effect produced by physical attractiveness.

            Other times it’s sad.

          • most of the time it is sad and for some it can be dangerous…

          • andrew

            It is also sad to see gay men who have a need to trash other people, especially those in porn, so that they can achieve a false sense of moral superiority.

        • TK

          Are you serious?

          http://38.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ma08tkXarl1r9agu6.gif

          I don’t understand boys in gay porn who are Republican.

          • I don’t understand any LGBT person, any sensible person, any sane person, or anyone with even half a brain, being Republican.

        • andrew

          There are some good people who are Republicans. A couple of friends of mine vote Republican because they are Pro-Life. They believe that all abortions are “murdering” a human life. They believe the Democratic Party enables the “murder” of millions of unborn babies. So they vote Republican.

          • Todd

            Friends that vote Republican = enemies that you know.

          • andrew

            Yes friends. Although I would never vote Republican, there are some good people who have their reasons for voting Republican. Many of us are one issue voters. I would never vote Republican because my one issue is LGBT equality, and most in the Republican party don’t really support it. My friends one issue is abortion, which they see as the “murder” of millions of innocent unborn humans and they see the Democratic party enabling that, so they won’t vote for Democrats. Actually we did come to agreement and all voted for the Democrat Robert Casey in his 700,000 margin victory over the extremist Rick Santorum. in the Pa race for U.S. Senate. We could agree because Casey is a progressive/liberal Democrat who supports limits on abortion.

          • n24rc

            Your friend is a fucking moron, who has no idea how women’s bodies work. Pregnancies naturally terminate after conception all the time. So is God an abortion doctor?

          • andrew

            Actually one of my friends, who opposes abortions, is a woman and has two children, so she does know how a woman’s body works. Women should definitely have a say in continuing their pregnancy. However, I agree with those who say once the unborn becomes viable and could live outside the mother, it has a right to life that shouldn’t be taken, unless continuing the pregnancy threatens the life of the mother. Unfortunately compromise is almost impossible on this issue, because many Republicans want to enact laws that grant the newly fertilized egg personhood and most Democrats won’t even vote to outlaw late term abortions. I have no idea why Ryan is a Republican. It might be that he has bought the phony argument that Republicans are strong on defense and the Democrats are weak. There are lots of reasons why people ally themselves with one party or another. Your assertion that you know why Ryan is a Republican is just rude nonsense IMHO.

          • n24rc

            get a consensus on what is “viable” and “living,” before assuming so.

          • andrew

            You think you have all the right answers. I don’t. I do think that the medical profession knows when the unborn human becomes viable and can live outside the mother. At that point, I think the unborn has a right to live and should not be terminated unless continuing the pregnancy threatens the life of the mother. The abortion issue is going to continue to divide America because both the Democrats and Republicans continue to listen to the extremists in their parties and are unwilling to risk compromise.

    • sxg

      What’s more shocking is that Zach allowed you to put links up from his old home!

    • kkdd1

      I hope he does not give Ryan a SECOND CHANCE !!!

    • andrew

      When was “the first time” that Ryan missed when he used a gun to shoot at someone? Your post is outrageous and equally outrageous that 15 people agree with it.

      • You DO NOT understand an analogy and/or figurative language…

        • andrew

          I understand well that you were saying that because of the fact that Ryan is “pro gun” and that Ryan beat up his boy friend in the past, that people should be afraid that Ryan might shoot them. It was an outrageous over reach and you should be ashamed of yourself. If you were half as smart as you pretend to be, you would be a genius. I suspect it is an act to cover up your real insecurities. You are a condescending phony.

      • McM.

        That post/image wasn’t referring to a literal gun.

        There are people who treat others like shit simply b/c they can. Their status, or other circumstances and apologists, will excuse their behavior no matter who gets hurt by it. The issue is b/c their behavior is always excused and justified in their own minds, then there’s little reason for them to change.

        When there is no change in behavior, a person giving a second chance is just returning to a situation they escaped in the first place. That’s the extra bullet.

        • andrew

          How do you know that there has been no change in his behavior? Has he beaten up anyone since that one terrible incident?

          • McM.

            Are you serious with this?

            NO ONE GETS A GOLD STAR FOR NOT BEATING UP THEIR BOYFRIENDS!!!!!!

            In that comment I was talking about awful behavior in general relationships, but speaking of the one in this Str8UGP post, only Ethan Slade knows if there was a change in behavior. Ethan Slade asked for more than a public apology, and I believe it is reasonable for him to have the simple expectations of not being lied to, cheated on, humiliated, controlled, manipulated, and emotionally neglected before considering returning to a relationship where he was.

            Ethan Slade does not exist to give Ryan Rose multiple chances at redemption.
            Ethan Slade does not exist to make Ryan Rose a better person.

            As long as he lets go of any pain and resentment to move on with his life, and allow Ryan Rose to move on with his own, Ethan Slade can decide to walk away from this situation and come out golden. In which case, Ryan Rose’s redemption lies in his next relationship, should he choose to have one.

          • andrew

            YES, I’m very serious about every post I make. They reflect my sincerely held opinions. Agree or not. It matters not.

        • Thank you for explaining things to Andrew….

  • Derek

    The only thing more tragic than this drama is the grammar in that “apology”. Does anybody know how to spell, proofread and construct a proper damn paragraph anymore? Does college have to be less expensive?

    • von schlomo

      He’s a former Marine. The funniest thing about the whole thing is he felt the need to sign it.

      • FrenchBug

        Maybe he wanted to make clear which one of his split personalities he was writing as.

      • andrew

        Thankfully there are many brave young men and women who serve in the U.S. Military or we might just wind up being thrown off buildings by ISIS because we are gay.

        • von schlomo

          Right, of course. But, what exactly is your point? Is it because someone is in the armed services than they are beyond reproach and “off limits” for criticism? Does RR get a pass to beat up people? His grammar is a horror. Always has been. Further, you must not be aware that amongst the armed services the Marines are chastised as being the least intelligent of them all. But, I guess we’re not allowed to say that.

          • andrew

            I have never read any polls of members of the Armed Forces on which branch is the least intelligent. In my tour of duty in the USN and 3 year service on a DDG, I know that my shipmates admired the bravery and courage of the Marines. Your comment about bad grammar is irrelevant and of course nobody should get a pass for beating up someone, nor should it be constantly brought up, unless he proves to be a repeat offender.

          • von schlomo

            Your comment about their bravery and courage is irrelevant. You’ve said this before, do you feel that we can’t hear you? The issues at hand are twofold, 1) intelligence and 2) good writing. Neither of these two issues have any play in one’s bravery and courage, does it? Bravery and courage amongst warriors predates writing. Since you were in the Navy, you do realize that intelligence is one of the criteria for deciding who’s a grunt and who’s an officer? It’s all up to putting the aces in their places. Surely you can understand this.

            My source is my best friend was a Navy Corpsmen assigned to Marines. If you really insist, I can contact him and put you in contact so you can share stories.

          • andrew

            Actually the main issue on this thread has been whether some give Ryan a pass for beating up his boyfriend, because he is hot or a popular porn star. His intelligence and writing skills are irrelevant to that main topic. I mentioned that the sailors on my ship talked about the bravery and courage of the Marines and didn’t hold the view that you seem to think is common, in the Armed Forces, that the Marines are the least intelligent. Surely you can understand this. I can be just as condescending as you, but it’s not a trait to be admired. These little give and takes are largely a waste of time because they almost never change anybody’s opinions.

          • von schlomo

            Whatever the “main Issue” of the thread is, it’s beside the point of my rather small comment, which was specifically addressing his writing skills. If you want to debate that topic, go right ahead, it’s just irrelevant to what I said.

            In the end, how many people are required to hold an opinion before it’s allowed to be made? I don’t care if no one but my best friend think Marines are the least intelligent, it’s one person’s viewpoint, which just so happens to be illustrated by Ryan Rose and his abysmal writing.

            I’m being condescending because you seem to be simple. Sorry, sometimes I just can’t help myself.

    • Dazzer

      “College”?

      Ummm.. elementary school?

  • AC

    He beat the shit out of his previous boyfriend and now he’s treated his last like shit. Words are useless and this guy ought to resign himself to the FACT he’s not relationship material.

    • n24rc

      So when did you figure this out, before he beat his boyfriend up, or when he started escorting and doing porn? Cause I would assumed the latter.

  • Alias74

    What the fuck does “You Where Do Amazing” mean?

    And I’ll just say that the first two (badly fucking written) sentences alone would be enough for me to say “Um….NO.”

  • Aunt Porcus

    This is public masturbation that gets Ryan off…but does nothing but cause additional pain to his ex.

    Quite a catch. Proven domestic abuser, plus that fugly mug and horse teeth. NEXT.

  • TK

    I think heโ€™s being a little too hard on himself?!

    Because he’s so pretty! He can’t possibly be bad. I find him SO hot!

    http://38.media.tumblr.com/28cda07aad0410bbe932ddcb616ecf0b/tumblr_inline_nn6xc3dXDf1rol1w1_500.gif

    He just admitted to a bunch of shit, said out loud what others who know him have been saying for a while…but you have weepy eyes for him.

    I don’t know the first thing about Ethan, I’m familiar with Ryan and know about beating up the ex, but other than that I only know his porn work. But fuck yes I’d be upset if less than 24 hours after splitting up people were rubbing pics in my face of my ex kissing another guy.

    It’s clear these two have ongoing issues that need to be worked on if they are going to stay friends and that shit is not helpful. And quite frankly neither is posting a public apology/excuse. Call the person (or go see them) and work it out face to face. Public postings like that are so 16-year-old girl on Facebook’ish’.

    • Todd

      Somehow I think Ryan’s public apology was in response to Ethan’s ‘when a MAN wants 2 make it right’ tweet ……….. as Zach indicated, time will tell if Ethan forgives Ryan (let alone gets back together with him)

    • DPS

      Seriously, I know neither of them well enough to make any personal assessments of them. But it is clear that both have been acting in spite and now one seeks remorse publicly? That is cowardly by not facing your shit head-on where you caused or contributed to the troubles (ie, person to person).

  • Dave

    It’s called acting like a martyr to publicly save face & gain sympathy, nothing more , nothing less. After all he has a “image” and “career” he has to protect. Would have been much more effective if it were done honestly and in private. Not to mention it’s hardly an effective apology when it’s written quickly and obviously not proof read, definitely diminishes its sincerity.

    • Mike Julius
    • Jay

      Image & career? He’s a HOOKER. The only images they need to protect is “Can I rail your ass for 2 hours?” and “Can I squeal like a pig when you rail my ass?”. I also wish people would stop bringing up the Marine thing–his behavior would embarrass any man who served in the Corps.

      • Dave

        That’s why the words are in parenthesis I was being sarcastic

  • TK

    Zach, maybe one day YOU can be the love of Ryan’s “live”

    Live…

    http://31.media.tumblr.com/66e647ba7aaeb9504d7b3562c81d7b47/tumblr_necjdcQfzu1tmcmg4o2_500.gif

  • n24rc

    What, nothing about Santoro is being reported? You mentioned the threeway that they had, nothing about the ensuing breakup drama.

  • txsaneman

    Kudos to Ryan Rose for publicly admitting his failings. But I sincerely hope that Ethan does not view this mea culpa as an “about face.” Where there is smoke there is fire. I hope Ryan takes a moment to reflect on his own words and prepares to either commit himself to being a better boyfriend for the next go around or coming to the sobering revelation that perhaps he’s not someone who should be in a relationship.

    • Todd

      Ethan’s response should be ‘It’s what’s best’, which was Ryan’s initial answer to questions about the break up.

  • TalkDirtyToMe

    What is with these fucked up idiots putting all their personal shit out on Twitter? Really??? WTF! Ryan, the world doesn’t need to see your poorly worded and at times indecipherable apology. Billy, save your split announcements for when the divorce is imminent. And Ethan, a real MAN doesn’t go looking for apologies over the loudspeaker of Twitter.

    i like drama as much as the next guy but geez not everyone’s life has to be a reality show played out over social media.

  • Myko

    Just another trashy talentless loser. NEXT

  • Myko

    Yet another Porn “star” mess

  • CA

    Everybody wants to be famous these days…when performing in porn isn’t enough, just toss the drama around social media to create your very own ‘Real Housewives of Porn’ experience. LOL, I love how normal my life is.

  • kkdd1

    Apologies from Ryan Rose are as mundane as the days of the week

  • Spongey

    That is all!