Big-Dicked Gay Porn Star Kayden Gray: Please Stop Talking About My Big Dick

Posted March 21, 2017 by with 61 comments

dickKayden Gray has just posted the below video—”More Than A Dick”—to his Twitter and Instagram accounts, and in it, he asks fans to please stop sexually objectifying him and his big dick:

While Kayden makes valid points (not everything has to be about dick) that should be remembered the next time you feel like commenting on something personal he’s posted, now…I’m sorry…I can’t help but think about his big dick. I mean, he brought it up.

Kayden-Gray-fucks-Darius-Ferdynand-in-the-gay-porn-scene-Secret-Diary-of-An-Escort-3This is a large, legendary, and virtually perfect cock that Kayden has been showing us in studio stills and selfies for years, so it’s kind of hard to not be thinking about it pretty much all the time.

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There was even an entire movie based on the cock of Kayden Gray, titled, The 9.5″ Of Kayden Gray:

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As distracting as Kayden Gray’s magnificent cock is, try not to bring it up in an inappropriate fashion, and just keep all your thoughts of Kayden Gray’s cock to yourself.

Kayden Gray will be seen in an upcoming scene from UKHotJocks “Sharp,” but don’t bring this movie up unless he specifically mentions it, please.

[UKHotJocks: Sharp]

  • Dulcis Memoria

    Methinks he doth protest too much! If he wants to be known for something other than his cock, he should go into another line of business.
    https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/36469edbf5a1d8866b4ef503738e6a514ede12b54d317fe1ef43eb4d4376ab80.gif

    After all, it is one of God’s masterpieces. Michelangelo couldn’t do better.
    https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/4badc6d084b9f92c8cdb7bf09c387b2352ce5fa5310b354edc8eb9129ed49d86.gif

    • Marik Ishtar

      Summoning chips from thin air is one of Alec Baldwin’s many talents.

      • moondoggy

        I think he’s eating orange slices.

    • Joey

      That was such a good scene! His big beautiful dick on nice, bouncy display too.

    • Galaxy_Scribe

      What scene is this…asking for a friend…

      • Dulcis Memoria

        TimTales: Tim Kruger fucks Kayden Gray.

    • mc90

      I also love him more as a bottom. He’s got such nice ass.

  • gaysiantwink

    Well, when you’re famous for your dick…getting comments on it is no different from people going ‘yas ariana’s vocals’ for example.

  • Marik Ishtar

    Okay so, I couldn’t hear what he was saying in the video so I turned up the volume which became an immediate mistake. So I paused the video and wrote this comment:

    Kayden Gray, if you want to be known for something other than porn, then do something other than porn.
    -Get a diploma.
    -Talk about books you’re reading.
    -Get a hobby and blog your experiences.
    -Share things about yourself other than your sex life.
    If you don’t want to open up about your private life that’s fine. But people can only know as much as what you are willing to share.

    Other than that the only thing I have to say is stop looking for validation on the internet.

  • OverKill

    https://media.giphy.com/media/133DHwxKoFPXpe/giphy.gif
    http://data.whicdn.com/images/94925819/large.gif

    I mean if you don’t want to be objectified then it’s time to jump into a career where you’re not objectified. You’re in porn where people are admiring everything about your body.

  • FrenchBug

    A porn performer complaining he is being sexually objectified is not exactly the best way for him to prove his brain power.

    • FrenchBug

      And I say that as someone who thinks he is absolutely gorgeous (so more than a big dick, even in the context of porn), who knows what he does for a living in real life (and that sounds interesting) and for whom he is on the Top 3 favorite performer of the past five years for sure.
      But, dude, you chose to do porn. I am sure the line is thin between being flattered and feeling cheap but surely you knew that came with the territory.

      • Well yes, pornography generally objectified people, I totally agree, and most of the time that is the whole point of it… but I also think that just because he make porn it doesn’t mean we have to take him away from the reality and think of him as a human without thoughts, goals and emotions.

        But yeah, he is really gorgeous and he should not be caring so much about the perception that people from the internet have of him.

      • Dulcis Memoria

        I completely agree with you. He is, and has been for quite some time, one of the most charismatic and enthusiastic performers I’ve ever seen in porn. I’d kill for a night with him, and welcome the sore throat and inability to walk straight that follows the morning after. He also seems quite well spoken and intelligent.

  • Dicky

    Well, he’s a porn star as everyone else has said, but for years, he has been an exclusive top. If he does not want to just be his penis, he has other parts he can use, and not just outside of porn. I don’t think he has even let a penis past his lips in ages, so getting stereotyped as a selfish alpha, and thus only his dick, is no surprise. Diversify!

    • DrunkEnough

      Clearly you never saw his epic struggle trying to bottom for Tim Kruger. He squirmed so much if felt like I was watching a crime in progress. Also, he has a big dick.

      • Dulcis Memoria

        That is one of my all-time favorite videos. Note the gif I posted from the scene above.

        • emercycrite

          No GIF.

      • Dicky

        Actually, I really liked that scene, because I like seeing guys I find attractive get fucked. But it happened back in 2013, a pretty long amount of time for a gay porn career and why I said “for years” as qualification.

    • Dulcis Memoria

      I beg to differ. He deep throats Josh Moore’s cock in the upcoming series that is featured in the preview above.

  • Evil John

    Re: Kayden Gray- you set yourself up to be an objectified. Own it. Re: Gayhoopla, St8’s have sex in front of fireplace. Ugh, HD acne. Throw some gauze over the lens.

  • Alesx

    But you are, Kayden, you are selling sex!

  • Russell47

    His dick is great, but I’d give his ass a hand (!!) too. I miss his bottoming, he was so into it. Maybe if he went back to bottoming sometimes, people would give his dick a rest, LOL

  • C3xxx

    Thanks Kayden. I can finally finish my trivia question: “What do Voldemort, the War (Fawlty Towers), and Kayden’s dick have in common? They cannot be mentioned.

  • Hereweare

    Who is this twunk? OMG he has a big dick!

  • Galaxy_Scribe

    If you don’t want to be known for your dick…stop doing porn?

  • Maximus

    http://d1o2xrel38nv1n.cloudfront.net/files/2013/05/tumblr_m15g4lMTQC1qevgri.gif

    Is it possible that he’s being purposefully ironic in order to demonstrate humor? I’m genuinely asking; I honestly have no idea who this ho is.

    • Dulcis Memoria

      Oh, we’re definitely witnessing irony, but I think it’s as a result of how clueless he is

  • Pertinax

    He’s a porn performer and also a male prostitute, His talk sounds like a whore preaching morals …

    • Goodboy

      Speaking of preaching you have such venom and hate for so little said. Don’t know anything about him but sure know allot about you.

      • Pertinax

        Should I praise him for being a whore ?

        • Goodboy

          I would assume you would since you enjoy watching them and using their services.

          • Pertinax

            No, you’re take me wrong. I may ‘ enjoy ‘ prostitutes, but I draw a line between them and the others. I prefer to give my sympathy and respect to the ones that don’t live such a sordid life as whores do.

          • Marcus Collack

            I’m a little confused. You Enjoy prostitutes, but you look down on them, you have no sympathy or respect for whores, yet you’re hoin’ in these streets with whores, so…

          • Pertinax

            L.O.L.They put a price on a thing that others give for free, they turn their own bodies in a commodity to be used ( or even abused ), the proper nature of prostitution denies every principle of what is expected in a sane and fair relationship ( The John keeps his status of human being, but the whore turns himself into a thing, a commodity with many prices… the market dictates them… ) : It’s an unbalanced relationship and you are ” confused “… Again I refuse to put this kind of people on an altar to worship them. I have better kind of persons to give my respect, I really don’t need to have sympathy for people that are available for half mankind for money and then come pretending to be like the others as if it doesn’t change nothing in their inner selves. Although some of them have gorgeous bodies and even the fact that they are debaucherous and promiscuos : ” Easy people for the right price…” makes them more attractive for sex…That’s why I’m interested in whores. For the book’s cover. Never for the text…But I allow you to invite some of them for a tea party in your garden or in your veranda…

          • Pertinax

            P, S. : English isn’t my mother tongue and I didn’t catch what ” hoin’ ” is. A slang, I presume…

  • Zealot

    Mama says I can’t talk about Kayden Gray’s big dick but IWANNAIWANNAIWANNA…wait. Does that mean I get to be the Pretty Pink Princess today??? BUT I WANNA TALK ABOUT KADEN GRAY’S BIG DICK, IWANNAIWANNAIWANNA…AHHHHHHHH!

    https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/3fec59c31a59d62c42aeaf3e40546022bcfd771797df0c18ae0ea57c514a32d8.gif

  • Derek

    He should just be thankful that something on his body is beautiful to look at…because it sure isn’t his face.

  • Scrapple

    https://media1.giphy.com/media/fKStLnJ89DaEg/200.gif#7

    You’re in porn. You should want the lustful attention. When people stop talking about you that’s when you should be concerned.

  • John

    I really like his face, his swimmer’s body and his attitude. Can you help me out: where is he from? He has a very, very subtle accent. I am going to guess German.

  • PaulieP

    such a burden to be asked about it… maybe do something other than porn…. that you are in…. because you have a big dick…….if you didn’t have a big dick do you think you’d be in porn?????

  • emercycrite

    It truly is a beautiful dick.

  • DaveAtom

    But he has indeed a great, fantastic big cock. Yes, he’s handsome, hot with great body, but his cock is his best asset.

  • Pinko of the Grange

    He can ask but he needs to lead the convo away from it.
    How about just asking the porn-watcher to notice that he throws a great fuck near every time.

    Something along: “hey guys I appreciate you know me for my cock, but how about a note on a great fuck or that I took on Tim with gusto once and a while. Now I am auctioning off a Neked Hug for the UK Aids Alliance to take place at Trafalgar Square. Opening bid?”

  • xxvi

    I stopped caring when he stopped bottoming. Go back to being a bottom if you don’t want people to talk about your cock.

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  • Tim

    the thing i have about this is going over his twitter feed for a couple months he does share a lot more, he is a lot more than that and anyone who bothered to actually look could tell.

    but he is right that every thing he does, even non-porn stuff, gets a heavy dose of “fuck me” in any number of various phrasings. It is a tad excessive.

    And all he asks for is a bit more balance in our approach to him. it is something I try to bring to every interaction i have, even if over Twitter. and a lot of porn stars are better and shepherding their discussions and the like. Shane Henderson (wesley woods) has all his comedy and social commentary stuff, Colby Keller has his artsy stuff, Tommy Defendi always had his music, heck even Jack Hunter with his sightseeing/cat photos.

    If Kayden has made any error it was in not being careful from the outset to cultivate a equally ravenous but more thoughtful following. His attempts now probably won’t work, but they are understandable and not really stupid either.

  • AussieB

    I tell people the same about my big fat schlong but then I haven’t made a career of having sex on camera & don’t post pics of my dick on the internet every day. This guy makes his career out of having a big dick. Hate to tell him he’s not being hired for his intellect

  • Odetofear

    I feel like most of the comments here aren’t even trying to understand his point of view. In the beginning of the video he’s really apologetic because he knows he’s going to get bashed for complaining. I don’t follow him on social media so I don’t know what he posts, but it seems like if he’s sharing ideas or interest outside of porn he would like his fans and followers to engage in what he’s posting. I do follow Tegan Zane and when he posts nudes I reply with panting emojis and compliments on his body. If he posts about his thoughts on mental illness like he did earlier this week in regards to Britney Spears’ past I try and reply on this point of view and thoughts. If he got responses on how hot he is on everything he posts I can undestand how frustrating that can be. On the other side though, I follow a guy on instagram he’s hot and he posts sexy photos with captions about fighting depression and I don’t see how the two are connected. That is confusing and annoying

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  • ToxicBrew

    Wow! He has a big dick ?

  • Cosmic

    What?!?!?!

  • n24rc

    He’s the type that will complain later when guys don’t pay attention to him, when he’s just an old timer. Enjoy it while it lasts. It fades quickly.

  • JohnJacobJingle

    He’s cute and hung. That’s only going to go so far in life.

    You’re known by what you present. He presents himself as a whore to the outer world. Why now is he trying to change the conversation?

  • UnhealthyNutter

    Something tells me despite the complaining he’d never want to trade in his big dick for anything else.

    Mr Kayden Gray do you think you’d be in porn if you werent well hung?… Yeah i dont think so either. Oh woe is him :/.

  • johnn

    youre not being objectified…the character you play is. you play a character, the porn star isn’t you , think about do you lead a life like that? do you yell or always act like that? you no doubt have a lot more interests in addition to porn. youre great ! go with it ;-0)

  • Cunty

    Lets get Brute Club to destroy him on the Theo Ford “battered steak hole” level. They haven’t filmed together because Kaydens boyfriend left him for Brute and then Brute turned away the boyfriend. I’ve been dying to see this play out in a twitter war!